This has COMPLETELY changed my life.
I had disgusting falling outs with people that I thought were friends. Some even “best friends.”
They took every opportunity to smear my name, block me then post about me (without mentioning my name but everyone knew it was about me) and create nasty shit talking comment threads. People would text me screen shots...I saw every single one of them. One person in particular was driven to sabotage my existing friendships, relationship with my family and even my marriage.
It was SO hard to be the bigger person and not share MY story.
There is ALWAYS two sides to every story.
It was a really hard time. I became recluse, I didn’t want to make new friends...I didn’t trust a soul. No one.
Bottom line is that it truly crushed me, and I was terrified of having anyone hurt me the way these women did.
Women bullying women IS a thing.
However, I realized I wasn’t truly happy with staying in my cave. It was a pretty lonely place.
Last year I decided to push myself to get dressed, put my makeup on and went to everything I was invited to.
Making excuses, not showing up and essentially not trying to meet people had become my comfort blanket.
Fast forward a yearish later and I have been blessed to be surrounded by some truly genuine, empowering, SUPPORTIVE, beautiful (inside + out) women.
I have made some incredible friends, reconnected with old friends and they have truly made my life absolutely AMAZING.
I am the most confident I have felt in my entire life. Being myself, getting back to my outgoing self and not giving a shit what others think of me. I owe a GIANT thank you to these people!!
If you’re not happy with where you are in life. Look around, make necessary changes and change that shit.
LIFE. IS. TOO. SHORT. ⚡️
Get the fuck out of your comfort zone.
Post inspired by my amazing friends old + new: @luvspunfloss @christiee_diane @jamie_nicolem @katiemallen2 @jeniadame21 @masfina99 @tasiporter @mah_ris.ah @jcarnine26
Don’t forget that God is always there and he will NEVER abandon you. He lives and he loves you so so much!! It’s okay to not be okay sometimes. It’s life. We are humans. We make mistakes. But you got this. Pick yourself back up and keep going!! ♥️
This can apply for any situation you in right now . From working on your craft in sports , running a successful business, obtaining that the degree you chasing , and working to better yourself as a person ‼️‼️ My advice is simple GGTM 💪