Did you know before this whole helping others gig I could hardly get out of bed? .
I wouldn’t say I had depression, but I also wouldn’t say life was great either. .
Nothing in life really excited me. I was recently married, got my dream job, was moving back home life should have been grand right?
Yeah, not so much. I was sick and tired of being sick and tired, and on top of it all I felt like I had no purpose. .
People think that this is a side gig for extra money, when really it’s SO much more than that for me. This “side gig” drug me out of one of the darkest times, and forced me to take care of me first. I’m not sure about you, but NO gig requires that. .
I get a lot, “Well I want to do what you do, but I need to take care of me first before I can help others.” That is truly one of the BIGGEST LIES there is out there. This “job” requires you to take care of YOU first. Then you get to pay it forward to others. .
You never know, this could be the thing that saves you too. And worst comes to worst? You don’t like it or it’s not for you, you don’t have to continue with it, but the bonus is you’ll get in the best health of your life.🙌🏻 Free info coming at you? You in? Drop a ❤️ below yo!
#MomLife- the highs and lows are no joke. Laughing, playing, cuddling one moment— to screaming, crying, full on overwhelmed AF.
If I’m being really honest- I lost myself during the first years of #motherhood. I didn’t recognize myself in a mirror. I resented having a kid. I resented other moms for not telling me how fucking hard it was. I resented moms who made it look easy! I was annoyed that my husband got to wake up everyday and go somewhere outside of the kid chaos. I was embarrassed i didn’t enjoy being a stay at home mom. i was angry. I was exhausted. I was constantly missing the independence i used to have.
I was dreaming of having an uninterrupted shower- a Netflix binge with my husband- or a meal where i could sit down and enjoy eating—- my mind was no where near grateful and happy for the present moment. (Don’t get me wrong- I still had some happy moments as a mom back then.... But those who knew me then— they saw my struggle was deep and we all knew it wasn’t just #postpartumDepression— it was also #SpoiledAF and not use to having so much responsibility.
It took a lot of work— inner and outer—- on my #mindset, on my daily habits and my daily routine to get me to the space I’m in now— a space I get to be present and ENJOY my kids.
More of my story another time.
For now- to you momma- just want you to know.... I get it it. I feel you. It’s hard AF some days. But don’t give up on yourself. Make the time to do what fills you up- because I promise- you are WORTH it. ✨
Today we pay a tribute to the late great Karl Lagerfeld, who has suddenly passed away. We are deeply saddened to hear the news of his passing, one of the world's greatest designers whose work ethic, talent and passion were admired by all. He leaves behind his beloved cat, Choupette. Karl Lagerfeld never married, but admitted that if he could, he would have exchanged vows with his beloved cat, Choupette. Who can relate to that? 🐱❤️
The late Chanel boss hailed the seven-year-old white Birman cat the love of his life, and was devoted to her pleasure before his shocking death on February 19.
As well as having two personal maids to tend to her every beauty need, the precious pussy also owned an iPad, loved to shop and ate her dinner from Goyard china next to Karl. We call that FANCY AF! We thank you for your inspiration and timeless legacy. RIP 💔
Someone had to get another toy basket. It’s hard to tell but this one on the right is waaaay bigger but not big enough 🙄🙄🙄. I thought about getting her a hamper but then I couldn’t watch her pull them out #spoiledaf
Don't just stand there, humom, hand feed me some grapes would ya?
She was supposed to come in and lay her egg and after a lot of screaming, she goes silent and this is where we find her.
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Best hubby ever 💘💕 for putting up with me and my mood swings 😁 . Nobody else I’d rather do life with than you , the father of my two boys 💙💙👸🏻 #spoiledAF