I’ve been looking through quotes & memes all morning, trying to decide what to post for #ValentinesDay to inspire & encourage you guys...& I finally decided on a text I just sent two of my girlfriends. Because y’all...my #growthgame is strong with this one & I need to celebrate it. I say that not to toot my own horn but to encourage you because good grief, a year can do a lot to a person! Last year at this time I was in a relationship...but miserable. Last year at this time I still had months of heartache ahead of me as I mourned the end of that relationship (& he moved on to the next like it was nothing). Last year I didn’t truly know my own worth & I thought it was dependent upon if a man wanted me or loved me on Valentine’s Day. And this year? This year, I’m good 😎 This year, I’m happy. This year, I’m alone. And this year, I love myself and I know that no other human being on this planet gets to assign my worth to me because my worth is a fixed point 💪🏻So even if you’re not in this place today...be encouraged, because you will get there someday. I did. And man, I wouldn’t change a single thing about my journey 🙌🏻 If you need a little extra encouragement...check out my latest post for #TheDateMix where I talk about living it up today, with or without a bae 😉 Link in bio! Happy Valentine’s Day!!! 😘❤️😘❤️
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✨❤️ Happy Valentine’s Day to all you love birds out there, and also my single gals and guys!
My love life has definately been an interesting one. I've been single for 25/28 years of my life hahaha and I’ve loved every bit of it. I don’t understand why people are sad on these days. Like you’re going to be settled down eventually so why not enjoy the life you have on your own 😝
This time last year I actually applied to be on #TheBachelor which in hindsight I'm happy I didn't get on with how it ended last season 🤣 maybe meeting someone organically is better!
I hope all you ladies get treated with chocolates, nice gifts and lots of love making 💁🏼♀️🥳🙈 #ILoveLove
Love is not just being with someone, love is also being able to fall in love with taking care of yourself.
One year ago today a very long relationship ended in kindness, goodwill and respect. Life is a journey in which we are growing and being in a relationship doesn’t mean two people are growing or experience adventures and misadventures in the same way. And that was for us, one day we looked into each other eyes, and we simply realised - despite the love we were and will still have for each other - we were living our life on a separate paths and was time for us to let go, no matter how it might be made us feel.
Thank you for this incredible journey together, you opened my eyes to the world and had made it a better place to be in. I will always love you, but now I can finally say I do love myself more.
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❤️To the single peeps. Stay single until someone actually compliments your life in a better way, someone that makes it better to not be single. If not, it’s not worth it. #happysinglesday
Happy Valentine’s Day to this guy 💜
Really can’t thank him enough. Dunno where I’d be right now without all his hard work, dedication and commitment to serving others 🔥
Who needs a lover when you love yourself fully? 🤷🏼♂️ On a real note though, I think a lot of people throw themselves into a relationship when they aren’t fully satisfied with themselves. They think that some outside force or person will make their life complete. That shit doesn’t work.
When you are uninspired, unfulfilled and not chasing after any goals, you will reach for drugs, alcohol, people and material things to temporarily fill that void 📉
If you are in that place right now, it can change much faster than you think. But if you want it to change, YOU have to change. Focus on yourself and the rest will come 🙏 ...happy hallmark day 😁
To our single friends! ❤ Satisfied Staying Single Day supports being content in the singlehood phase of life. It's an independent and resilient time to get to know who you are. 👑✈⛵🛀🎢Studies show it's a time to get better sleep and have less stress about finances! 😀