✨Everything is a choice✨
We are all born, we all live, and we all do change over time as it’s part the process of LIFE.
People’s circumstances, life expierence and choices carve each individual into who they end up in the world.
Something each & everyone of us has control over is being able to identify when we need to grow, evolve, step up our game, step away, walk away, chase our dream or close the door on something that’s not right for us.
The KEY & vital ingredient 🔑 in all of this is being able to own your shit, and take responsibility for what you are, who you are and what you did.
Once you turn that corner and face the fact; you won’t be playing the blame game, you’ll be GROWING.
I guess, I’m someone who has always taken constructive criticism well, ( I guess a lot is environmental) as I always been the kind of girl/ women who try’s to handle everything... in good and bad moments.
Best way to grow & evolve is to reflect... take the time to sit in silence & listen to yourself!
Recognize the patterns, choices and decisions you have made and see if they sit well with you, if not... you have things to work out.
Life is an interesting place, we are all given chances, opportunities and quest... to go about our journey, it’s really when your ready to take the PLUNGE.
Ultimately everything is up to you 🖤
People continuously ask me where we live 😂 good question! The past year T and I have been mastering the triangle, TO-NYC-MTL. His actual “home” is in NYC where I met him. My actual “home” is still here in Montreal. And we both work a lot in Toronto... in fact his company is based there! So if you did your math correctly, we’re in a long distance relationship..... WHICH SUCKS!! Who feels me? It would really suck for anyone, and I personally can’t complain too much because we are lucky enough to have the ability to travel together often. My job is hella flexible and I have designed it to cover healthy life in all three spots. I remember a few months ago Trev said “babe it would suck to be in a long distance relationship.” And I looked at him and said “we are tho” 🤔 and he said “no, if anything we live together more than we do apart 😂”. He had a point. But to be honest we still find ourselves at times where life comes into play and we are apart for a week, or two or MAX has ever been three. I applaud those who can make it longer because I’m missing him too much after a few days. All this to say, that’s been the puzzle of our relationship, since so many are curious where we are based, we are too at times 😂. Now my focus is on finding us a “home” together because Im starting to need my base for stability and stillness... as much fun as living out of a suitcase can be. No matter where we end up, we will still make it a point to be in the other two cities at least once a month. But until then.... it’s decision time! Where should we set up shop? Toronto, Montreal or New York?? 🤭🤭
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