What do you want from the second half of your life ? If you don't have a vision or goal it will look just like the first half. You can change no matter what anybody thinks or says, you have the permition to CHANGE. you dont have to be consistently wrong, you dont have to be loyal to being miserable or horrible, You can become fit from being unhealthy, you don't have to be ignorant you can become smarter, you can go from being quiet to being talkative or talkative to being quiet, you can go from being not confident to confident, you don't have to be hateful because it's been the culture of your family or friends, you can become anything you want. Give yourself permission to do what you want it's ok my Nan said it doesn't matter where you take the message from it's where you take it to that counts. ✌🙏 #amen#mindset#personalhealth#lifestylechange#personalgrowth#motivation#workhard#change#grwoth#goals#beyou#happiness#message#life
We are told to hold our head up, move on, leave them. It’s in the past. But what they don’t see is: it was never about us. It was about their insecurities. Their inability to love, their damaged core and heart. For them it was just about capturing you, using up all the good and then discarding you. They will do it again with every person they meet. Because it’s all they know. Yet, we allow for this to happen. Society gives them a slap on the risk. When the victim becomes the problem. From an insider view, someone effected by years of abuse in relationships and friends it disgusts me how people and the law act upon abuse and rape. An innocent girl is rapped and now her underwear is shown across the world as the reason for the rape. How is it ever the victims fault? We talk highly of girl power, love and freedom to wear and do what we want but when rape or abuse happens it’s the victims fault for what they wore/did. As an abuse survivor, it hurts to see society treat people this way. They will attack again, it will never be the victims fault. After abuse, we are never really the same. It takes years to feel safe and happy again. We become our own darkness. Without the support of people around us and the safety of the law how can we move on? How can we leave the trauma in the past? How? .
MUA: @muahikaru .
I know don't why I had to do this,I don't know who this is passing a message to. But pick your battles wisely.
Drop a ❤ if it's passing a message.
Don't forget to TAG someone.
😁 📲 @sudehy
Le vouloir ne suffira pas. Le souhaiter non plus, ce qu’il faut c’est avoir la foi.
Quand on a la foi on peut déraciner des arbres, et bouger des montagnes ! C’est vrai qu’on a tendance à s’imaginer que bouger des montagnes c’est tellement extraordinaire mais il y a un proverbe chinois que je veux qu’on garde tous en tete : “Celui qui veut bouger la montagne commence par déplacer, les petits cailloux”
Alors commençons par ces choses qui semble insignifiantes, commençons par ces choses qui sont accessibles aujourd’hui, puis chaque jour faisons un petit peu plus que la veille. C’est ca bouger une montagne.
On ne changera pas de vie en un instant, on ne maigrira pas en une semaine.
On ne passera pas de la dépression au rayonnement en 5 minutes.
Ou d’un manque d’estime à un amour inconditionnel en qq jours... Il faut bouger ces petites pierres, aussi petites soient elles, elles font partie de ce que représente la montagne.
Soi exceptionnel(le) ! Soi toi meme !
As you know I been celibate 8 years and counting for those that know. If you’re new to my page welcome👏🏿👏🏿 but sometimes I do get lonely and be wanting to hold, kiss, and feel someone’s warm body next to mines! That’s a great stress reliever☺️ As much as I wanna kiss, hold hands I’m not going to just do with just anyone! Not every woman deserves to feel my hands caress their body, or feel my soft lips kissing on their neck or lips. Not every woman deserves my loving, and my heart. It’s nothing wrong with being celibate or still being a virgin. It’s nothing wrong with respecting and cherishing your body! #blackgirlrock#blackgirlmagic#blackmenrock#handsome_black_king#godisgood#truelove#knowyourworth#message
Today is the day! Don’t wait any longer and just do it! 👊🏻