@jadapinkettsmith Literally want to #repost everything this #woman says! If you haven’t already do yourself a #favor and #follow her. I really never could articulate what I wanted as far as a partner, but here it is. I don’t want just want a #man I want someone who is a #master of themselves. I pride myself in being #spiritual BECAUSE I understand everything starts in spiritual form before it becomes #physical I know that in order to become master of my #body I first must master my #mind my #emotions my #spirit I have to understand that I am experiencing things on the daily that effect my spiritual #DNA that will soon effect who I am and how I am as a person. I need that level of #consciousness in a #relationship I cannot be a master who dates a #slave Someone who is a slave to their emotions, past traumas and false self identification. I want to build something with someone who wants to #grow and better themselves daily because in return we WILL also grow and become better daily. If you have yet to become the #master of your body do not opt to be in a #monogamous relationship. A #relationship takes a certain #level of mastery to begin with and then it should go. If you don’t have the prerequisite requirements stay with yourself a while before getting with anyone else. Rushed things never turn out good as they could of it you would just take your #time
But it takes much efforts to keep a long distance relationship,
while conducting them daily.
It hurts when you can't keep them around,
and you have no one to shower your love with.
It's harder as it brings up the originality,conflicts,sad and angry moments,
But there will be you,
to work on it.
You might have promises broken at times but to fulfill them the next time is the key.
It raises much hopes,experiences,expectations and understanding
You start to learn from distance,
you face the drawbacks which leads you behind your relationship and thus brings sufferings.
It is more about the conversations you keep,
because meetings become less,
and the way you make them a priority in your life,
is all through networking,
you start to care more,
it might be too "bothersome" to the other at certain point of time,
when you think you are not living freely,
but at the same time you seek for that care.
when your heart grows fonder,
waiting for their surprise after a long gap,
as they are way more important than the person right beside you,
the feeling of kinship is right there,
when everything is perfect with the only person you want to be,
when you share your days,
good,bad,hard,bitter,best with the only person about anything and everything,
where they lack and are losing,
where they are best and perfect enough.
Where all the shortcomings and everything that a person feels is given a thought, discussed,questioned and resolved.
Also,when the person gets insecured at times,
and the love is shown right then,
where one smiles at little things,
over daily texts.
and the calls becomes mandatory,
where you respect and trust one another more than the judgements,
the misinterpretations and talks all that other person brings isn't believed or reacted,
but is discussed with your partner itself.
cause there will be you both to make them believe in your 'forever' over these insecurities.
When the eyes meet
and understanding becomes important,
You turn silent,
and all the worries go in vain,
You know everything is sorted in life,
Cause it's all about you,
You get attached to the wait and the person,
as the distance is felt.
Type "Don't be" and press the middle button until it makes sense.
28 10731 hours ago
Rehan always used to listen to music just one bar lesser than the loudest volume, be it any device. If you wouldn't know any better, you would mistake him for someone who has lost it.
It took two years to know why. He stayed in a home where for lunch, they had his parents hurl abuses at each other and for dinner, he had one of them break the dishes or anything that was breakable, sometimes hearts. And Rehan would lie down on his bed, earphones plugged to his ears listening to yet another song that would take him away from misery.
After several years of fighting, his parents grew silent, indifferent is the word. They would tiptoe around each other, their house became just another hotel where love never paid a visit. And thus, music became Rehan's friend, sometimes a lover, sometimes filling the absence where his parents should have been.
The seventh time I met Rehan, he told me, "Niyara, my heart is heavy from the words I couldn't say, from the words, I can't say. To love me is to walk on a road that leads to a dead end." That day, we listened to our favourite songs. That day, I held his hand and drew infinity on it. "Rehan, all roads end somewhere. And perhaps, we have all got the definition of forever wrong. Perhaps, forever is nothing but that one moment where I look at you and you smile. Forever is nothing more but that one moment where your lips curl into a smile when you talk about your favourite song.
Maybe, forever is nothing more but the poetry that never seems to run out when I look at you."