What comes to your mind when you hear the word "commitment"? Some relationships fail because those involved are afraid of commitment. They are not ready to start committing their time, energy, resources and efforts in building or sustaining the relationship. But what they fail to understand is that commitment builds you as a person in order to build a successful relationship. It doesn't just help you to build a successful relationship but your life generally. This is because the choice to be committed to that relationship confers on you a sense of responsibility and maturity.
In essence, commitment is being responsible.
You need that in every aspect of your life as you progress in life you'd find out you need to take up responsibility and you grow into it. It makes you realise that you are ready to step up and take It is only a child that gets scared of commitment. But when an adult starts being afraid of taking responsibilities then one tend to think that he or she isn't mature. Maturity is not in the age, it's in your ability to take up responsibilities.
What do you do when you have issues in your relationships? Do you think of ways to make things right? This here is what it means to be responsible. When you look at how far you've both come and how much happiness you both share; this isn't something you want to loose but cherish, you'd see it as your responsibility to keep it. And it's not just for one person but both parties. At this point you are not the only one doing all the thinking.
Understand that if you can't be mature enough to take a stand so as to solve an issue in your relationship you certainly can't do that in the next.
No relationship is perfect, what makes it perfect is that those involved are committed (responsible and mature). Let's know what you think in the comment section below 👇👇👇. #lovesnotes#love#relationships#relationshiptips#lovescorner#iloveyou#bae#nigeria#lekki#abuja#nigeria#romance#loveme#lagosnigeria#lekkiphase1#hustlerssquare#jagabansales#naijabride#naijasingles#abujamatchmaker#abujahotties#abujababes#abujabusiness#demolished_stories#quoteoftheday#thoughts
One month left until I turn yet another year older ... 🎉🎁 .
Our age has always seemed to be the way that society rates our progress in life, you know like by the time your 21 you should be acting like an adult & “getting a proper job “ by the we’re 25 we should be planning our future with Someone , maybe buying a house & taking dating more seriously we should be married by the time we’re 30 & planning to have children on our own .
BUT I’m sure we’ve all discovered at some point in our life so far , we are all so very different from one another &we’re all on our own path through this journey of life and absolutely NO ONE plays the game of life the same as anyone else !
IM at the beginning of a very exciting chapter of my life no matter what the number of the page says, I have plenty of time to do what I want in life and I am grateful everyday that I am getting to live a life I had always dreamed of. .
I high key love my bf yo. I've been at my grandma's for like two days and I thought he would be at home relaxing and being glad that he doesn't have to fight for the blanket but no , it's time like this when I'm glad I was wrong. #bae#relationshipgoals#bruh😩